Do You Need to Spend Money, for it to Count as a Date? Maverick was telling a female friend, he thinks a great date is a walk, or a trip to the beach for Sunset. She said that's nice, but for it to count as a date, you need to spend some money. Drinks, Dinner, Apps, Dessert, etc.. Lulu thinks most women agree with her. Women and Men wanted to talk about this hot topic. LISTEN HERE.